tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2561567473475965273.post6371307474772961082..comments2023-05-25T01:37:44.669-06:00Comments on Cake 4 W: It will help me immenselyWhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03934577982486946153noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2561567473475965273.post-7691445633734047912008-06-04T09:54:00.000-06:002008-06-04T09:54:00.000-06:00Unfortunately, I understand. It really hurts when ...Unfortunately, I understand. It really hurts when parents are divorced and the kids end up paying the price emotionally. I end up quite frequently going to the bathroom and bawling after exchanges and have to hear my kids tell me what a horrible parent the other kids parents think I am and how it makes them feel. I hate that every judgment is so harsh when viewed by a non-custodial parent. They are not the ones in the trenches. They will always finger point and bad-mouth because they have nothing better to do all week. They probably are pretty dissatisfied with their lives, or are feeling guilty because of their choices, or because they just have an angry outlook on life. Sometimes, the partner will jump on the band wagon and become the leader because of lies that previous spouse has stated to make themselves appear superior. Like I always say, "giving birth no more makes you a mother than standing in a garage makes you a car." The kids even if they use the comments to their advantage as youth, when they get older, they KNOW who was there for them and who parented and who taught them things that they must now unravel. They KNOW who really loved them and watched over them and that will take care of oodles of therapy. Smile and remember there is ONE judge over all that it will not set well with.Frisbies Foreverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12622203062164397347noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2561567473475965273.post-87579672046156833242008-06-03T04:22:00.000-06:002008-06-03T04:22:00.000-06:00Love you so much! Sorry you have to put up with th...Love you so much! Sorry you have to put up with the garbage.Mom of 5 Gentshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13421921393334744087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2561567473475965273.post-44952985897942807852008-06-03T00:05:00.000-06:002008-06-03T00:05:00.000-06:00LOL! Sounds a bit bitter! ;) Hugs!LOL! Sounds a bit bitter! ;) Hugs!Candicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05342249216726269387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2561567473475965273.post-57024848556148872452008-06-02T17:43:00.000-06:002008-06-02T17:43:00.000-06:00I am really, really grateful for the relationship ...I am really, really grateful for the relationship I have with th eother half... wow. I'm so sorry to hear that drama is still going on. :(Melziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00283713850096053116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2561567473475965273.post-48275417382640709242008-06-02T13:00:00.000-06:002008-06-02T13:00:00.000-06:00The real question is "who's pants are they? Her's...The real question is "who's pants are they? Her's or the child's?" Cuz if they are her's she can gripe, if they are the kid's who cares where they are stored and if he wants to store them at the other location, they are HIS pants. Right?<BR/><BR/>W, I still think a cape is in order!!!Alexandra Lundgrenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04999114433810548107noreply@blogger.com